Inviting kids to your Wedding - Yes or No?
So, you've just got engaged, and now you're wondering whether or not to invite your nieces and nephews to your wedding. You have some fond memories of them in the back of your mind, but are they too young to understand weddings? Is it appropriate to bring your infant cousin to a reception where everyone will be drinking and dancing? And what should you do about distant family members who have babies? Today, we're talking about kids at weddings. This is an issue that can be very touchy because family dynamics are involved.
Know what you're getting into
When you're planning your nuptials and deciding who to invite, one of the biggest questions you'll face is whether or not to invite kids. If you've been to a wedding without kids, you probably have some idea of what it's like. People are more likely to stay late and cut loose on the dance floor, and you don't have to worry about anyone smashing cake in someone else's face. Keep in mind that when there are no kids at a wedding. that often means no parents. Parents of small children may not be able to leave them with a babysitter in order to attend your wedding. If they have a babysitter lined up, it may cost them as much as attending your wedding. Your friends with children might appreciate being able to bring the kids so they can actually enjoy the evening without worrying about their childcare arrangements falling through
Size up the location of your wedding
First, try to size up the location of your wedding. Will it be in a kid-friendly place? Will the venue be large enough for little ones to run around freely and safely. However, if you're having your reception at
a posh country club or an upscale restaurant with limited space, there might not be room for kids to run around and be safe.
Consider your budget
To make the decision, you should think about how the inclusion of kids would impact your wedding. First, consider your budget. If you're on a tight budget, the addition of children to your guest list could quickly add up to be a huge expense. You may want to consider limiting their number or having an adults-only reception.
When should you not invite kids?
There are certain situations where you really shouldn't invite children - for example. if your reception is going to be late at night or if you have an adults-only destination wedding. Some couples feel that weddings should be adult-only affairs and that it's inappropriate to expect parents to provide childcare on their big day your big day, so kick them off the guest list to be safe.
The decision to invite children to your wedding can be a difficult one. While some people may prefer to have a kid-free party, others will find it hard to imagine celebrating their wedding day without their favourite little ones present
